Reforming Landmark from a Position of Power and Possibility: Distinguishing Landmark from Transformation
Many Landmark participants struggle at some point (or on an ongoing basis) with the issues of Landmark methodology appearing "wrong" in some way (manipulative or self-serving or strange or harsh or whatever) on the one hand, and Landmark doing great things for people on the other. As part of the transformation process, many let go of their concerns, embrace their love of Landmark, and do not let themselves go down that critical path. This is very understandable as the path of doubting Landmark methods or intentions is typically a path of cynicism and negativity that makes it extremely difficult to fully engage in conversations of transformation and possibility within the current Landmark curriculum. Full engagement in the reformation of Landmark requires that one be in possibility, neither conflicted and resigned about the way Landmark is, nor uncritically loving Landmark and unable to evaluate, accept and address issues with the organization.
The access to possibility in dealing with the imperfections of Landmark is to fully distinguish Landmark from transformation, and having separated the two, to understand transformation as manifest in reality, independent from what happens in Landmark. In other words, it is necessary to fully distinguish transformation as a result from Landmark as a vehicle that provides access to transformation.
Conversations in the Landmark curriculum tend to collapse Landmark and transformation. For examples, consider discussions you've heard in Landmark courses or events about giving, sharing or being a stand for someone's transformation. Was the assumption or explicit statement in that conversation that bringing transformation to others involved Landmark, whether it was a Tuesday night introduction or registering them in the Forum, the Advanced Course, SELP, and so on? When spreading transformation equals inviting and registering people for Landmark, the two have been erroneously collapsed in that conversation. In reality, Landmark is Landmark (an organization of people, facilities, etc.), and transformation is transformation. The two are distinct. But what is the reality of transformation distinct from Landmark?
Transformation is defined on "the boards" as "the genesis of a new realm of possibility," a fairly abstract definition compared to what is apparent when we see transformation manifest in reality. Remember the reserved guy who became vibrant. Real, not abstract. The perpetually grim-faced woman whose face was lit up at the end of the Advanced Course. Remember the kids who were impacted by your SELP project and how you got the power you now exercise to make a difference. That is transformation manifest in reality, not abstract. Consider how you were before the Forum and how you are today. What are the key things you picked up for yourself? Those changes in yourself and others are transformation manifest in reality. Consider for yourself what those changes or transformations are in reality, not as an abstraction. Perhaps transformation is something like a sustained ability to see things as they are (distinguish "what is" from "story") and to manage and create and sustain thoughts, feelings, a clear mental state to live life positively and powerfully. Consider various ways that people might get access to this way of living. If you see possibilities for people getting access to this way of living without taking Landmark courses, you have distinguished transformation as manifest in reality from transformation as what happens in Landmark.
Once you see transformation as distinct from Landmark and get transformation as a possibility independent of Landmark, you are free to love transformation and also see Landmark for what it is. You can trust and love Landmark or you can mistrust and criticize Landmark or anything in between, and from any of those viewpoints, you can live in the possibilities of transformation and work to reform Landmark into an extraordinarily effective engine for spreading the experience of transformation around the globe.